Systemic Family Constellation Facilitator Training
If you are a healer or therapist who has tried many healing modalities over the years for your self and your clients, you probably have realized one painful fact—most people don’t stay healed. Sure, they get better for a time. The emotional, mental or physical problem seems to resolve. But then, inevitably, the issue returns or something much like it takes its place.
Let me give you one example from my own practice as a healer:
One of my clients, let’s call her Janet had excruciating lower back pain for over 10 years before she started to work with me. As a Grandmaster of an ancient Tibetan energy healing modality I started to help her using this modality. This healing is a very high level, transformational healing helping thousands of people all over the world. After our session her pain was gone! She could not believe it. On the way home, she was trying different body postures to see where the pain went, but nothing, it was gone for good!
Or so she thought. After about a year of happiness and freedom of movement without the pain, it slowly started to come back. It was not as bad as before but there it was a again.
As a Grandmaster healer trained for many years in a Tibetan healing, I began to see the same pattern with many of my clients. And it didn’t seem to matter how many follow up sessions we did, or how much we talked about the hidden meanings behind the issues or the emotional connections to problems.
The fact is, most healings simply do not stay permanent.
When I saw this happening with clients over and over again, I made it my mission to find out out why. What are the invisible strings pulling people back to the same issues, problems?
I knew that what I needed to discover was a healing method, one that went to the root cause of any dis-ease, whether it was emotional, mental or physical. One that complements any other healing modality a person uses and makes them work faster, and insures that the results stick. The healing is permanent.
I learnt modalites looking at the causes of problems as well as offering solutions such as psychographotherapy, analyzing drawings of people, space energy optimization, examining and correcting the energy in people’s environments, dream interpretation, story telling, mythology for healing, colour therapy, crystals and essential oils. These took healing to the next level, yet I wasn’t satisfied. They were not quick enough, transformative, life changing enough!
Finally, one day, I heard from one of my friends, also a healer, about Family Constellation Healing. What I heard was that this system, developed by a European psychiatrist, Bert Hellinger, took healing well beyond the symptom level, and instead worked with the ancestral and family line stories and patterns at play in people’s lives. It views people as integral parts of a system, not just a single human being.
Intrigued, I started participating in the work and experienced amazing results, healing and transformation in my own life. I decided to learn to lead Family Constellations. So I enrolled a 2 year training program at a Hellinger accredited Institute in Europe. I soon discovered that in applying this method I began at last to see healings and true transformations for my clients–and myself–that were relapse-free. People were healing life long issues in a matter of a few sessions and most miraculously, these breakthrough transformations were permanent! Not only they were permanent for my clients but created rippling effects for the whole family, people related to them.
Let me share just one of my favorite client stories:
One of my clients, Jodie was allergic to gluten for over 10 years. She could not consume anything containing wheat, or other grains with gluten. When we worked together, she did not have the session on this allergy because her doctors told her it cannot be cured. She had to learn to live with eliminating it from her diet. No breaded tempura, no crispy chicken, no warm, fresh croissant with her morning coffee.
What we worked on was a rash she developed a few weeks before our session.
Her doctors couldn’t figure out what it was exactly and how to make it go away.
It turned out in the constellation that one of her great great aunts had a little girl at around the age of 4 who wondered out of the farmhouse on her own, into the wheat field, got lost and was never found alive.
The mother never recovered from her grief and self blame. This pain of the loss as well as the self blame was carried down generations after generations to Jodie. She not only had the subconscious rejection of wheat manifested as an allergic reaction to it in her body, but she also carried the belief that “you must watch your child at all times for them to be safe” Her son was 23 years old, still living at home close enough for Jodie to keep an eye on him. This belief caused tension between them since her son did not want the amount of attention he received anymore. He was old enough to start his own life which subconsciously was scary for Jodie.
Few days after the constellation I received a text message in the afternoon: “Guess what I had for breakfast! A croissant! No reactions so far.” A year after that message she still did not have any reactions, she was able to enjoy bread, bakery products anytime. The only ones causing some discomfort were the one made with GMO crop, but that’s a whole different story for all of us.
Why does this method work?
You, see, most un-wellness is simply because we all carry burdens of shame, guilt, fear and anger that don’t belong to us.
What do I mean by this?
Well, what if I told you that something that happened to your great great grandmother can actually impact your happiness, success and health today? Or that a family secret far up the family line can cause chaos in your life today creating relationship problems, issues with your children and many more?
During our work with clients using the family constellation modality we uncover these root causes, long forgotten stories, traumas in the family line, bring them to the surface just enough to release them and heal their effect.
Why do I want to learn the Family Constellation Method?
Imagine a method that you can use for getting to the very root of your issues or those of your family members, clients and friends—resolving problems at their origin so that success and happiness can emerge without blocks.
Imagine rapid healing for yourself and all those connected to you. Imagine being able to do this healing anytime, anywhere?
You don’t have to be a therapist or healer to learn and benefit from this work.
Most of the time what you wish for yourself, what you have been trying to manifest is in fact coming to you. But too often hidden family system blocks keep your dreams from happening. The sad fact is, until you identify and remove these blocks, your dreams cannot reach you.
And it does not stop with you. Once you learn and use the methods of constellation healing on yourself, you will automatically help your children, your parents, your siblings and even your friends in any areas of their lives. You see, this healing has a ripple effect on those around you.
Just like Marc, who had a younger sister he really loved, yet they stopped talking to each other 8 years ago. After working on an issue he was struggling with, – unrelated seemingly to his sister- he shared the following with me: The day after the constellation his sister suddenly phoned him and said: “Why did we stop talking to each other? I think it is time to reconnect.” Then they talked for 2 hours trying to make up for lost time. He was glowing with happiness next time we met.
Of course, you can also use the constellation method directly on those around you as well.
And if you are in a healing career already, you will improve not only your own life (healer heal thyself) but your work will begin to radically and quickly transform the lives of your clients.
Systemic Family Constellation work complements any existing healing methods you might already be using. In fact, it ensures that the other methods you are using can be most effective because you will have addressed the deeply hidden root causes that have kept clients stuck.
The Family constellation method takes any healing to the deepest level, to be the most effective and provide rapid transformation.
Upto now you had to travel to multiple locations in other countries to be able to learn all these above, but now they are offered in Vancouver, BC!
You can now enroll to the 2016 Training:
Systemic Family Constellation Facilitator Certification Training
Systemic Business Constellation Certification Training
College 280-1125 Howe street,
The modules are one weekend a month, from Friday to Sunday early afternoon.
The training is a comprehensive training through 9 modules.
7 modules teach you to lead Family Constellation sessions and 2 modules teach you the unique and highly powerful technique of Business Constellation to work on projects, your own business and career path, company structures, leadership, entrepreneur, business issues just to give you a few examples.
You can help distant relatives, friends and clients living far from you.
You can work with them via Skype, over the phone and when they are not in the position to do so, you can represent them yourself during the work. You can also start your own business doing constellation work as a beautiful career. You can find out all you want of your family and ancestors and you can learn to connect to all those who can support you and help you live the life you are truly meant to live.
The training is done in a small group setting to ensure maximum individual support. It contains a significant amount of self-development and constellation work, so you can start transforming your life and the areas that need healing during the training.
A very unique opportunity is that there is an option to learn past life and spirit intervention constellations as well as collective ones addressing overall human, cultural and global issues as an optional module of the course.
- Introduction to Family Constellations, Morphogenetic Field, the 4 main Governing Rules in our lives, Soul entanglements, Family Systems, who belongs to the system and who does not, how reoccurring patterns form, their effects, Trauma, Religion, Culture in individual and family dynamics, patterns.
- Birth family, Grandparents, Parents, Siblings, relationship with our Father, relationship with our Mother, hierarchy of siblings, twins, unborn twins, adopted siblings, miscarried, aborted, stillborn siblings and their effects on the individual’s life.
- Intimate relationships, Couples, Dating, Finding Love, Intimacy, Sexuality, Sexual and Physical Abuse, Divorce, Hidden sabotaging patterns, dynamics, Rules to long-lasting intimate relationships.
- Children, Conception, Pregnancy, Miscarriage, Abortion, IVF, effects of unborn children, blocks with conception, Birth experiences and their effects, Rebirthing constellation, what children carry forward, what they are showing for parents of their family and ancestry line.
- Money, School, Career, Job, Entrepreneurship, Abundance blocks, money patterns inherited and their removal, the power of 9-5, career paths, choices and changes.
- Health, health issues, weight problems, allergies, healing chronic pains, chronic and acute illnesses, Cancer. There is nothing! that cannot be cured by finding and healing the root cause of it!
- Life and Death, Addictions, Alcohol and drug abuse, Archetypes and their use in constellations and personal development: mythological characters, God, Goddess Work, Spirit Intervention.
The modules also teach you to lead groups, work one-on-one, distance-, silent and blind constellations as well. Midway through the training you will already be able to lead constellations in a supervised setting, then soon on your own.
Systemic Business Constellation Certification Training
- Business Constellation Work, origins, areas of use, opportunities in individual, team and organisational level, career transition support, rules in a business, effects of breaking these rules, bankruptcy, successful operation, private blocks in a business setting.
- Leadership, Hierarchy, Project testing, Marketing Strategies, Decision making.
- Practicum – 2 full days of Constellations led by students in a supervised environment.
- Fergus Denhamer
As I began to become more aware that my habitual reactions and patterns weren’t tied to life experiences I was conscious of, I looked for ways to get clarity on these ‘hidden’ areas. Henriette, using the family constellation modality, brought to light a number of systemic family system issues I had no conscious awareness of but were major influences on the quality of my life. Hidden shame being one of them. Understanding, acceptance and surrender naturally flowed as part of the healing process. I highly recommend Henriette, she has an excellent working knowledge of Family Constellation to help her bring clarity to whatever areas of your life you are looking to understand and heal.
- Mehmet Yaygin
I have taken Henriette’s training in 2016. She is a well trained and a well experienced professional. She know the content inside and out. This training has been a blessing for me both personally and professionally. You might be a beginner or a veteran in the path of self development, she will meet you wherever you are at. We are lucky to have someone as knowledgeable as she is here in Vancouver.
- Lori Ann Lothian
After my first constellation session with Henriette I was delighted to find a long-standing emotional block dissolve literally, overnight. I’d done a ton of self-help reading over the years, and even spent two years as a student in a transpersonal psychology graduate program. And yet, nothing I’d encountered is as effective, fast and seemingly miraculous as this type of healing work. I’m a convert!
- Tracy Davies
I have completely enjoyed the Family Constellation Training. I really feel it is adding value to my tool box, & making what I already do that much more complete.
- Matthew Kocel
Deeply profound work. Thank you Henriette, and everyone who takes part in this.
- Wendy Dipalma
I have found Family Constellations training to be a profound experience in that my personal healing that has taken place while training to help others has been in leaps and bounds. I don’t believe I would have found any other modality that would have offered such an extremely deep and expansive healing. At the same time I am now in a position to offer the same experience to others which in itself is such a great opportunity to share and grow. Henriette is both patient and humble and offers a safe space where there is no judgement and and you are warmly supported. I would take the course again in a heartbeat!